What I’m Learning About Gratitude With My Feet
An experiment in getting out of my head and into the ground
Yesterday I told you gratitude lists never worked for me.
Today I want to share something I’m trying. Not something I’ve mastered. Not advice from years of practice. But an experiment I’m in the middle of—one that feels right even though I’m still figuring out how to explain it.
It’s about letting my feet practice gratitude, not my mind.
I know how that sounds. But stay with me.
Why This Feels Right
Gratitude lives too much in our heads.
We think grateful thoughts. We make mental lists. We analyze whether we’re appreciating enough, feeling enough, being enough. The whole practice happens between our ears, where performance and authenticity blur together until we can’t tell the difference.
What drew me to this feet-thanking-ground idea was its literal grounding. Not metaphorical. Not symbolic. Just physical contact between body and earth. Simple. Direct. True.
No performance required. No “getting it right.” Just walking.
That simplicity felt right in a way gratitude journaling never did.
What I’m Noticing
Here’s what surprised me: at the start of every Camino walk, before I get tired or achy or settle into routine, there’s this feeling of walking on air.
Not floating. Not disconnected. The opposite.
Walking feels effortless because I’m connected with the land, with the earth holding me. My feet aren’t just moving forward. They’re in conversation with the ground. Each step feels like it’s being received, not just taken.
I’d always attributed that feeling to Camino magic or beginning-of-journey excitement. But maybe it’s simpler than that. Maybe it’s what happens when your body practices gratitude directly, rather than your mind trying to manufacture it.
That’s what I’m testing now. Can I find that same feeling on my regular walks? Not on pilgrimage routes. Not in special conditions. Just on ordinary sidewalks in ordinary moments.
The Practice I’m Trying
Fifteen minutes. No headphones. Let your feet thank the ground.
That’s it. That’s what I’m experimenting with.
I’m not trying to think grateful thoughts. I’m not monitoring my feelings. I’m not performing anything for anyone—not even for myself.
I’m just noticing: feet touching earth. Ground holding body. Simple contact. Simple presence.
Some days it works. Some days my mind wanders. Some days I forget halfway through and have to start over. Some days I feel refreshed, relaxed, and connected.
I’m still learning how to explain this. How to invite people into it. How to describe what’s happening without making it sound mystical or complicated when it’s actually the simplest thing in the world.
What I’m Figuring Out
The hard part isn’t the practice itself. The hard part is getting out of my own way.
My mind wants to evaluate: Am I doing this right? Is this working? Should I feel different by now? Maybe I should run inside and journal this!
But feet don’t evaluate. They just touch ground. They just move. They just make contact.
When I can stay with that, just feet, the ground, and contact, something shifts. Not dramatic. Not performative. Just present. Just honest.
That’s what I’m hoping to discover more of. Not a technique to master. Not a practice to perfect. But a way of being grateful that my body already knows how to do when my mind stops interfering.
An Invitation to Explore Together
I’m not teaching this from a place of expertise. I’m figuring it out as I go.
But if gratitude lists have never worked for you either, and you’re tired of appreciating in your head, maybe you want to try this experiment too.
Fifteen minutes this week. No headphones or talking with anybody. See what your feet know that your mind keeps missing.
I’ll be walking alongside you, still learning, still discovering what it means to let my body practice gratitude instead of my mind trying to manufacture it.
Maybe we’ll both find something we didn’t know was there.
Walk With Me
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Walking beside you,
Jeffrey
Jeffrey, have you read Peace Is Every Step by Thich Nhat Hahn? I sent Wendy a copy of this years ago and later I learned she liked it so much she had added it to her green curriculum of the time.