Your Gratitude for Nature Is Not Real Yet
Why feeling thankful for “the Earth” keeps you from actually connecting with it
You have been told to be grateful for nature. Nobody told you that gratitude without relationship is just sentiment.
I have walked over 500 miles on France’s ancient Le Puy Camino and spent years building a practice of ecospirituality as a Wild Guide and Chaplain. The shift that changed my perspective was not learning more gratitude. It was learning specific names.
Generic gratitude keeps the Earth at a comfortable distance.
You can feel warmly toward forests without ever sitting beside a specific tree. You can appreciate birdsong without knowing which bird, which branch, which particular patch of morning sky. You can post about loving the planet while, in practice, remaining a tourist passing through it.
Real gratitude works the way all gratitude works. It is directed at something particular. A specific face. A specific act of kindness. A specific presence that showed up when you needed it.
I was genuinely grateful for a tree named Hermann in the Luxembourg Gardens in Paris. Not for trees in general. For him. That specificity was not precious or eccentric. It was the only thing that made the gratitude real.
Choose one living thing near your home. Return to this being later this week. Learn something about them that you did not know before.
Gratitude follows contact. It rarely works the other way around.
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